Every student wants to be in her class, and every teacher wants to actually be her, complete with pet iguana and magic bus.
We cannot continue to exist in a world where teachers are being pulled in opposite directions all of the time. Where we have one size fits all curriculum and classroom management systems in every class. This way of teaching is failing everyone involved.
You can work around the lengthy process of a typical IEP. You, the parent, has the right to formally request that your child be tested for a disability.